Start Your Journey of Illumination

Awakening men to their belovedness, that they might love the world.

Your Journey begins here.

Illuman invites you to a life-long path of inner work that makes a difference in the world.

The journey often begins with a Men’s Rite of Passage, and continues from there. After this rite, you might join a local chapter and participate in a local council circle, or join an online passion circle. As your journey deepens, you may learn to help welcome newcomers with our Initiator Program or Council Training. There’s no prescribed order of events, and different men enter the continuum at different points, each of which supports their own inner journey with connection, intention, and brotherly care.

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Men’s Rite of Passage (MROP)

The signature event of Illuman, these rites help awaken men to the adventure and mystery of this life. Learn more

Council

Whether virtual or in person, regular council meetings keep Illuman men in touch with each other, their spiritual practice, and the journey we’re all on. Learn more

Awaken

Illuman’s annual conference brings men from all over together to dive deeper into our collective inner work. Learn more

Online Programs

From virtual council to online passion circles and virtual cohorts, we have many ways for you to connect and grow. Learn more

Initiator Program

Men who have already completed an MROP can return to help welcome and hold space for first-time attendees. Learn more

Council Training

Learn how to host other men in a council circle by embarking on Council Training. Learn more

At every step along the journey, we aim to help men become loving, generative wisdom-carriers who will care for others and the world.

The Five Touchstones

No matter what your path looks like, the Journey of Illumination is rooted in five key touchstones that guide this healing, generative work: centering, gathering, connecting, releasing, and serving. From your local council circle to our annual conference, you’ll find the wisdom of these touchstones woven into everything we do. Their rhythms offer support as we strive to deepen spiritually, to grow as servant leaders and generative elders, and to participate in the healing of ourselves and our world.

  • Centering

    We are men grounded in the power of presence. We live with an awareness of our connection to God, Creator, and Mystery—that which makes us come most alive.

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  • Gathering

    We are men who recognize the need to gather and tend to the important things of life. We seek to do together what cannot be done alone.

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  • Connecting

    We are men who share deeply. We journey together, walking shoulder-to-shoulder with friends, and listen deeply to each other's stories.

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  • Releasing

    We are men who let go of the ways that no longer serve our planet, our neighbor, our families, and ourselves.

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  • Serving

    We are men who honor the earth and stand in solidarity with all that is in it, finding ways to serve our family, community, and the world.

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We walk the journey of illumination together, helping each other realize a full, intense, and well-grounded presence in and for the world.

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Gene’s story

Over a decade ago, I began a spiritual search. During that time, I attended a Men’s Rite of Passage (MROP) in Northern California. Through the sacred rituals of the MROP, I experienced a profound sense of peace and a deep sense of community with my spiritual brothers. All the ways we create divisions became insignificant before the loving truth that sustains us all.

On any given day, we hear stories of men across the globe who are hurting creation, hurting women, and hurting each other and themselves. The profound grief we experience because of this damaging behavior can be overwhelming and confounding. It is tempting to believe that men are beyond hope. Daily, I choose not to consent to that despair and instead participate in communities like Illuman that are on the cutting edge of healing.

Are you ready

to take the next step on your Journey?

Join in-person

  • Explore our flagship offering, the Men’s Rites of Passage (MROP)—an immersive experience that ushers you into the adventure and mystery of your own life.

  • Already done your initial rites? Return to the MROP and go even deeper through the Initiator Program.

  • Find supportive connection with fellow men at a local Illuman Council Circle.

  • Join us at Awaken.

Join online

Other

Explore our events page to discover upcoming Elders’ Rites of Passage, Youth Rites of Passage, workshops, and more.

Not sure where to begin?

Contact us

“Illuman has deepened my awareness of the sacredness of my life, my loved ones, and my purpose.”

— Bill, Florida