We exist to help men heal, connect, and find deeper purpose.

Illuman is a nonprofit spiritual movement committed to supporting men on their journey of inner transformation. Rooted in contemplative practice and inspired by the teachings of Fr. Richard Rohr, we help men deepen their connection to self, others, the Divine, and the needs of the world.

The Men’s Rites of Passage is Illuman’s signature five-day retreat. It’s an immersive experience that invites men into deeper self-awareness, soulful reflection, and connection with something greater than themselves. It is not a lecture or workshop—it’s a rite of initiation into a fuller, freer way of living. Learn more at /MROP

No. Illuman is an inclusive, interfaith community. We honor many paths to the sacred, and men from a wide range of spiritual backgrounds (including none at all) are welcome.

Illuman is for male-identified persons seeking greater wholeness, meaning, and connection. Whether you’re stepping into spiritual questions for the first time or continuing a lifelong journey, you are welcome here.

Illuman is not a religion or church, nor are we affiliated with any single institution. We are a brotherhood of men who gather for contemplative practice, shared wisdom, and authentic inner work. Our gatherings take place in retreat centers, online, and in living rooms around the world.

MROP includes ritual, teaching, silence, nature, prayer, and small group sharing. It’s a carefully held container (space) where men are invited to let go of old patterns and open to a more authentic version of themselves.

There’s no perfect moment to begin. If you’re feeling a pull toward deeper questions or sensing a shift in your life’s direction, this may be the right time. Many men arrive with uncertainty, but leave with clarity and renewed purpose.

MROP is not a test of stamina. You will be invited to show up wholeheartedly, but not pushed beyond your capacity. You will not be shamed, singled out, or put in unsafe situations. The experience is emotionally rich and best entered with an open mind and a willing heart.

You are invited, not required, to share. In small Council Circles, men often speak from the heart, but only what feels right to them. You always have a choice.

Yes. Many Illuman men come with complicated or painful spiritual histories. Our language honors the many ways people speak about the Divine, and our spaces are designed to be non-dogmatic, respectful, and safe.

Event costs vary, depending on location, accommodations, and duration. Fees typically cover lodging, meals, and materials. You’ll find pricing on each event’s registration page.

Yes. Most events offer sliding scale pricing or scholarship support. We never want financial limitations to be the reason a man can’t attend.

Yes. We offer in-person retreats and events, as well as online programs, virtual Men’s Circles, and workshops. Whether you're near a local Chapter or connecting from afar, there’s a place for you. Get connected to our online community.

A Men’s Circle is a small group of men who gather regularly to practice deep listening, honest sharing, and spiritual reflection. Some meet in person; others meet online. These are often the heart of a man’s ongoing Illuman journey.

Council is a contemplative practice where men gather in a circle to speak from the heart and listen without fixing or judging. It’s both a method and a way of being—one that nurtures authenticity, trust, and deep connection.

Yes. Many Chapters (groups based in different states or provinces) host open Council Circles or events where you can experience the Illuman community firsthand. We encourage you to connect in whatever way feels right.

You don’t need any prior experience. Our facilitators are trained to welcome men of all backgrounds. Curiosity, openness, and a willingness to show up are all that’s required.

No. There’s no obligation or membership requirement. Many men begin with a single event and choose to return. The door is always open.

While many men begin with MROP, others enter through Men’s Circles or online gatherings. There’s no fixed path. Each offering supports your unique journey toward wholeness.

After MROP, many men join a local or virtual Council Circle, attend additional retreats, or deepen their practice through the Initiator Program or Council Training. The journey continues in community.

Yes. Illuman invites initiated men to return as part of our Initiator Program, holding space for others and going deeper into their own journey in the process.

Yes. Many of our online Passion Circles and workshops focus on specific life stages or challenges, such as recovery, fatherhood, eldering, divorce, or midlife. You don’t have to navigate these alone.

Yes. Our online offerings include themed circles for new fathers, men in midlife, those moving into eldership, and more. These spaces offer a connection around shared experience and wisdom.

Absolutely. We host Youth and Young Men’s Rites of Passage and welcome men of all ages into our circles and communities. All generations bring needed wisdom.

Yes. Illuman affirms the dignity and belovedness of all people. We offer LGBTQIA+ Passion Circles and strive to create inclusive spaces for every man’s story and identity.

Yes. Most event pages include contact information for a local organizer or Chapter Convener. You’re welcome to reach out with questions or to speak with someone who’s been through the experience.

While our work may be deeply healing, Illuman is not therapy. We offer a spiritual path grounded in ancient wisdom, ritual, and shared vulnerability. Our aim is not to fix, but to foster transformation through presence, connection, and inner work.

Yes. Our Virtual Councils, online Passion Circles, and seasonal gatherings make it possible to be fully involved from anywhere in the world.

Illuman was founded with the blessing of Fr. Richard Rohr, whose earlier work with men formed the basis for our Men’s Rites of Passage. While he is no longer directly involved, his teachings continue to inform our work.

We believe that as men grow inwardly—cultivating self-awareness, compassion, and spiritual grounding—they are better able to serve the world around them. Inner work is not just personal. It’s the beginning of healing for families, communities, and the Earth.